When a loved one passes away, planning their final farewell involves a number of meaningful decisions. One of the most personal among them is what to place in the coffin. For many families, adding items to the coffin can be a beautiful way to honour the memory of someone special.
But while it’s a deeply personal choice, it’s also one that needs to consider certain legal, cultural, environmental, and practical guidelines. In Australia, there are rules around what can and cannot be placed in a coffin, especially depending on whether it is for burial or cremation.
This guide will explore what items are commonly placed in coffins, what restrictions may apply, and how to personalise a coffin while staying within Australian regulations.
Why Do People Place Items in Coffins?
Placing personal items in a coffin is an age-old tradition seen in cultures all around the world. It is often done for:
- Sentimental reasons: To accompany the deceased with things they loved.
- Religious or spiritual beliefs: As part of burial rites or customs.
- Symbolic gestures: Representing relationships, achievements, or cherished memories.
- Comfort for grieving families: Allowing a more intimate, personal farewell.
Even a small token placed in the coffin can carry profound emotional meaning for those left behind.
Common Items You Can Put in a Coffin
If you’re wondering what’s typically allowed or appropriate to include, here are some of the most common items families choose to place inside a coffin:
Letters and Notes
Many people choose to write letters, poems, or personal messages to their loved one and place them in the coffin. This can be a powerful way to express things left unsaid or to simply say goodbye.
Photos
Framed or unframed photographs of family, friends, pets, or special places are often placed inside. These serve as visual reminders of cherished times and meaningful relationships.
Flowers
A single flower, bouquet, or even petals from a favourite bloom can be placed in the coffin. This is a simple and beautiful way to add a touch of nature and peace.
Jewellery
Watches, wedding rings, rosary beads, or sentimental pieces of jewellery are frequently included. Some families choose to bury the jewellery with the deceased, while others place it temporarily in the coffin for the viewing only.
Books and Poems
A favourite novel, religious text, or meaningful poem may be placed in the coffin as a way of reflecting the person’s interests or beliefs.
Personal Items and Keepsakes
This can include anything that was significant to the person in life:
- A favourite hat or scarf
- A stuffed toy or childhood blanket
- A football team scarf or badge
- Craft or hobby items like knitting needles, fishing lures, or music sheets
Drawings or Cards from Children
Young family members often want to contribute something special. Hand-drawn pictures or handwritten notes can be touching additions to the coffin and offer a gentle way for children to say goodbye.
What You Cannot Put in a Coffin
While many items are allowed, there are also strict rules, especially when it comes to cremation. Crematoriums must meet environmental regulations that prohibit certain materials from being burned. Items generally not allowed in coffins include:
Batteries or Electronic Devices
Items like mobile phones, remote controls, iPods, or battery-powered toys can be dangerous when incinerated. Lithium batteries, in particular, can explode under heat.
Glass or Pressurised Containers
Glass bottles, perfume containers, or aerosol cans are not permitted as they may shatter or explode during cremation.
Metal Objects or Weapons
Large metal items (e.g., swords, golf clubs, tools) or any type of weaponry are not allowed. Even for burial, some metal items may be discouraged due to environmental concerns.
Plastic and Non-Biodegradable Materials
Many plastics release toxic fumes when burned. Items with high plastic content are typically not permitted for cremation.
If the coffin is destined for burial, there may be more flexibility. However, environmental considerations still apply, particularly in green or natural burials.
Cremation vs. Burial
Whether your loved one is being cremated or buried plays a big role in what can be placed in the coffin.
- Cremation: Regulations are stricter due to fire safety and emissions standards. Only approved materials and personal items may be placed in the coffin. Items must be combustible and non-toxic.
- Burial: More items are generally allowed, but keep in mind that materials which don’t break down naturally can impact the environment. Some cemeteries or eco-burial grounds may have additional restrictions.
Always consult with your funeral director before placing any items in the coffin. At Family Funeral Services, we will guide you through exactly what’s appropriate and safe.
Can You Place Items on Top of the Coffin?
Yes. In addition to placing items inside the coffin, many families choose to adorn the top of the coffin during the funeral service with:
- A floral arrangement or wreath
- A framed photo
- The person’s military cap, medals, or service flag
- A symbolic item representing their life or passions
These items are typically removed before the burial or cremation unless the family requests otherwise.
Respecting Cultural and Religious Traditions
Every culture and faith has its own customs around burial and what should or shouldn’t be placed in a coffin.
For example:
- Catholic funerals may include rosary beads or religious icons.
- Aboriginal Australians may follow spiritual traditions that honour the earth and ancestors.
- Buddhist ceremonies might include incense, prayer papers, or ritual items.
At Family Funeral Services, we respect all cultural and spiritual traditions. We will work closely with you to ensure that any meaningful items are included in a way that honours your beliefs while also complying with legal guidelines.
Making the Farewell Personal
What you place in a coffin can be a deeply moving way to say goodbye. Whether it’s a simple flower or a treasured keepsake, each item tells a part of your loved one’s story.
While there are some practical and legal considerations, there is still plenty of room for creativity, meaning, and love.
At Family Funeral Services, our compassionate team is here to help you plan a farewell that is respectful, personalised, and true to your loved one’s wishes. We’re always available to answer questions and guide you through the process—from the first call to the final goodbye.
We’re Here to Help
If you’re unsure about what can be placed in a coffin or need help planning a funeral or cremation service, please don’t hesitate to reach out. The team at Family Funerals has the knowledge and experience to guide you through this difficult time.